Ok, doesn't mean i'm gay I can't relate to this wonderful song. Fergie's Big Girls Don't Cry in which she wrote together with Toby Gad(huh?) reached the #1 spot on the Billboard hot 100 chart. Fergie was only one of a handful female artists to have 3 songs on their debut album that placed number one on charts just like Mariah Carey and Christina Aguilera(actually Christina had 4).

I really like this song because Fergie stunned her listeners by sounding different in this song-I mean I thought she would be scruffy but sounding lightly makes her sound more like Christina Aguilera . The song is really full of meaning although it's a bit cheesy.

I think she loves the person very much but time would come that she has to move on. Eventhough it's so hard, she needs to continue and grow up as a person and and she has to have courage to do it hence big girls don't cry.

anyway here's the video and hope you like it the way i do. The lyrics is just beside my blog ....