This is the month again where I get to visit someone's grave. We haven't been visiting our father for the past 12 years. By the way he's dead for almost 20 years so if you ask me if I have a clear picture of what my father is well I'm sorry to say that I don't. I have pictures though. This time it is my Lola's (grandma's ) grave that we visited. It's still so surreal that she's no longer with us. Well, I know for sure that she's no longer a limp there. See you there!